After 2 plus years going out with this guy. We broke up with each other. He was on the website that night looking for another woman.
How long should I wait before going out on dates or seeing guys?
Also, how can guys be that way after a break up with their girlfriends?
Everyone takes a break up differently. It all depends on how you feel about letting someone else into your life right now. You don’t want to jump in another relationship and feel tied down with your emotions from the relationship before because all you will be thinking about is your ex. That is just not fair to you or your present boyfriend. giving yourself time to heal is always good so you can know yourself and what you want in the next person you date.
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November 27th, 2009 at 2:28 am
i dont think you need to wait…
whatever you feel is best..
if your not over him then dont go looking 4 other guys
apparently he’s moved on,
so should you
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November 27th, 2009 at 3:01 am
Everyone takes a break up differently. It all depends on how you feel about letting someone else into your life right now. You don’t want to jump in another relationship and feel tied down with your emotions from the relationship before because all you will be thinking about is your ex. That is just not fair to you or your present boyfriend. giving yourself time to heal is always good so you can know yourself and what you want in the next person you date.
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November 27th, 2009 at 3:37 am
I’ve heard that women need half the time they dated someone to get over them. So if you dated 2 years, you need 1 year to fully get over him, etc.
But it’s different for everyone. There’s no set time to wait it out. If you’re over him and feel like you can handle a new relationship, then you’re ready to start seeing someone else.
Guys can do that because they’re looking for rebounds, not relationships. They wanna get laid, not married.
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November 27th, 2009 at 4:23 am
Don’t think about how long it took your ex to look for a new girlfriend– after all, when a break up happens, more often than not, one if not both parties of the relationship are truly done and they want to just move on and find someone else. No offense intended there, but occasionally people realize they’re not right for each other, and even if it has taken them 2+ years, they’ve still reached that realization and they’re…simply done.
Don’t think about people, and don’t ask about norms. Sit down with yourself, and reflect over this: Are you ready to date again? Are you ready to deal with first and perhaps subsequent dates? The possibility of a relationship? The possibility that you like someone, or that they like you, and it’s not mutual? Are you, generally speaking, ready to go fishing since there’s plenty of fish in the sea?
If -your- answer to that, based on how -you- feel, is yes. Then you should go dress up and go out and meet some people. Otherwise, you need to give yourself sometime to get over the residue of emotions left by your past relationship, before you consider dating again.
Again, don’t ask people on "the norm" for how long it should take, and don’t compare yourself to your ex. He might emotionally be very ‘done’ with things. People don’t always feel the same
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