February 11, 2010. My experiences dating straight/hetero women and how they have changed over the course of my transition.
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March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
Man, this is all …
Man, this is all awesome.
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
@JoaquinJack27-the …
@JoaquinJack27-the idea of a gay non-phallocentric man sounds like the answer to my prayers! However, I do worry that a gay mans interest in gay transguys could easily be read as a fetish rather than a genuine interest in the person?
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
I recently had a …
I recently had a gay man contact me interested in me as trans, which I thought was a little strange because normally a trans gay doesn’t have a snowball’s chance in with a gay guy, which sucks when you ARE gay. But I discovered that there is actually the rare gay guy who is not only uninterested but DISinterested in the penis. This guy more wanted to be with a male-minded person, but without the genitals, which I actually thought was pretty cool. Gay + Non-phallocentric = SCORE?!?!!
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
girls always expect …
girls always expect something from a guy idk why i dont really expect anything from a guy but honesty and friendship you seem like the perfect guy its hard to find a guy like u
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
great video man …
great video man thanks for posting
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
I’ve had many …
I’ve had many experiences where straight women have identified me as a good kind of different, something that they couldn’t put their finger on. Out of these women, a good number have assumed that I’m gay, expressing this either to my face or through a friend.
For the most part, I really enjoy interacting with women like this. I like being non-threatening, but I sometimes hit a rough patch. I might be interested, but she’s too used to seeing me as a gay male friend to think of me differently.
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
Just curious, would …
Just curious, would you ever date a female bodied gender queer and/or a no-ho no-op transmasculine female?
And do you know anything about gay men dating transmen? I have one transguy buddy who has dated a gay man, but that is the only case I have heard of, at least within the queer community here in Santa Cruz. I have always wondered how the dynamic would work, as I know some of my gay male friends can be quite phallocentric. I’d like to think that people could overlook ones lack of a penis…
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
Great video, …
Great video, Charles
real REAL talk, thanks!!
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
yeah i have been …
yeah i have been there alot with straight women.
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
Yes! This we need …
Yes! This we need to hear more about. Very nice vid.
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
I see this kind of …
I see this kind of insecurity with a lot of my straight female friends, and it breaks my heart that so many of them have so much baggage around sex and men. It’s hard to even start trying to undo a lot of the damage, it goes way deep.
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
Charles,
When you …
Charles,
When you tell a woman that you are a Transman, don’t some of them say, “thanks but no thanks”?
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
This is a good …
This is a good topic Charles.
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
This is good …
This is good Charlie. Thanks for posting
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
Wow Charles, you’ve …
Wow Charles, you’ve vocalized frustrations that I used to have when trying to find a girl to date. Except it was so confusing to me that I could never figure out why I had such rotten luck.
So far dating gay girls isn’t really much easier. Ironically like you mentioned, I definitely know what I want more than I did when I was younger, and I’m less likely to compromise on some points. Bottom line: dating girls isn’t easy for anybody?
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
Thanks for posting …
Thanks for posting this, it has been my major question regarding women. I never knew there were ‘straight’ women that would date us transguys. It’s cool, reading the comments below that ‘straight’ women that date transguys exist.
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
I agree conpletely
I agree conpletely
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
awesome vid!!
awesome vid!!
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
She has been …
She has been conditioned by here
previous relationships, and may lack the maturity to handle a deeper relationship and it may have nothing to do with being trans. Sometimes people project their inadequacies on to others instead of dealing with what is really going on with themselves.
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
Great video, and I …
Great video, and I think you dead on. Its funny how people preceive you if they did not know you prior to transition. I like to think of transmen as more of a hybrid man. We know what women have been through due to our previous lives before transition.
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
Charlie:
You …
Charlie:
You should write a book telling cis guys how to understand women. It could be a best seller!
Lloyd
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
you are so right. I …
you are so right. I have yet to date a straight woman, but every thing you are saying is very true. I am in love with a girl who is 19 (I am 28). I think she still isn’t ready for a real relationship. She has always been abused by guys and she still feels like she has to be in a relationship with them. I do not get it. I think that because I am trans, she thinks I am inadequate.
Caleb
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
I second the …
I second the comment below mine!
March 7th, 2010 at 9:16 am
this “straight girl …
lolz *hugz*
this “straight girl” would date you